

The #1 Rule in a BDSM Scene is "Always Take Care". This means, from the moment you start, the dominant lead has to provide attentive levels of care. We ask for consent, ask about limits, set safe words, respect safe words, consistently check in with the sub as the scene proceeds, ask for more consent with begging, provide both impact and some gentle touch, offer breaks and refreshments to stay in a healthy mind and body, and aftercare with cuddles and reassurance. It is important that in every step of the way, there is care involved.