A guide to erotic conversations. We read at night. A comple..

A guide to erotic conversations. We read at night.

A complete guide to bed conversations with examples for beginners, experienced and the most sophisticated partners.
For many people, deciding on an obscene conversation is like venturing into a minefield. Talking in bed is a special area of sexuality, which sometimes even seems silly. People are too embarrassed and don't know what to say, and shyness and uncertainty make any provocative and exciting remark just funny.
When a partner asks to talk about sex, instead of a hurricane of passions, a chilling cold often bursts into the bedroom, from which all desire disappears. Maybe your ideas about sexual conversations will seem disgusting, ridiculous or completely insane to your partner.
The rule that helps to cope with conversations in bed says: first, tell me what you want to do with your partner and what you expect from him, and when you start doing what you have planned, tell me what you like.
For example, a partner has a high level of sexuality, but he or she does not know how to get excited in advance. Maybe he wants to have sex more often, but he can't think about it that often and tune in. Erotic conversations will help just here.
The conversations will be about what you want here and now. But if you casually drop the phrase "I'm trying to concentrate and work, but instead I remember how last week we had sex in the 69 position and couldn't tear ourselves away from each other," she will push her partner into your arms.
Any reminder of how good it was for you together, or how you imagine the next evening, will lead to sex.
Admit what you like, tell your partner about it immediately, and then the partner will want to give you more. Conversations will give sexual games another shade and turn sex into an experience with a lot of sensations.
There is nothing wrong with common phrases like "Yes, I like it", "You're just super", "I like having sex with you". But they can be saturated with emotions by adding descriptive details.
"Yes, I like it" turns into "Yes, go on, I love feeling your big/small hands on your chest/ass, there is no one sexier than you in the world."
"You look great" turns into "You're cooler than any of my fantasies, I adore you and your wonderful / soft / strong ... (here is the name of any part of the body that you can't tear yourself away from)".
"I like having sex with you" turns into "I like the way you grab the sheets before orgasm. I love to hear your breathing stop when I kiss you in (well, here you know where it's better to kiss a partner). I want to be in you/on you/under you."
It also sounds better, right?
It is necessary to check the partner's reaction to the words BEFORE you go into the bedroom. If in doubt, it's better to ask than to blurt out something wrong at the wrong time.
Soft and "decent" words do not reduce the sexual tension of conversations, they speak about respect for the partner. Do you listen to your partner's wishes if he or she likes soft touches (or, conversely, rough and hard)? It's the same with words. With the help of conversations, an atmosphere of sex is created: gentle, hurricane or hard. Soft vocabulary creates a feeling of comfort and security. I personally am not always ready for this, and talking during oral sex is unacceptable for me, and it is completely impossible for me, my advice is not to talk during sex in the 69 position.
If you're scared, start with the messages
Some people find it difficult to start an erotic conversation because they grew up in a society where sex topics are taboo. It can be a religious culture or family traditions — however, it is difficult to talk about sex. A good way to test both yourself and your partner is to send an erotic text message and look at the response.
Yes, sometimes indecent conversations seem even frightening (especially when you read about them at lunchtime), but try to start and get used to them, to the fact that you are able to pronounce such words.
Start small, ask your partner how he feels about different words (and not only during sex), remember what can and cannot be said.
At first, there is no escape from the feeling of awkwardness, but over time, erotic conversations open up new horizons of freedom, it will be easier for you to communicate and understand each other. Words change sex life — this is one of the easiest ways to make it brighter.