In a world that often has instant requirements & information..

In a world that often has instant requirements & information, validation & approval. There is a powerful lesson in allowing people to be wrong about you. The truth is, not everyone will or will want to understand your journey, the things you say, your choices, or your character. It is a hard thing to learn but that’s perfectly okay. Time is so precious & we are often wasting it defending ourselves to those committed to making us wrong or not willing to hear our stories. Imagine changing our focus points & investing that energy into being the person whose character speaks louder than the naysayers or giving our energy towards those that actually see us. I used to run internationally & nationally. One day I was just done running & walked off the track in a qualifying 3000m race. I’d never quit anything before. My coach rang me up & told me I was a disappointment, pathetic, wouldn’t amount to anything & other unkind things. I felt devastated & those words hurt me deeply. She was an Olympic coach & if she thought that then it must be true….. For a long time I believed I would never be anything & was a disappointment. Truth was I was finishing college & I didn’t have enough money to pursue being an international athlete full time. I had to go to work full time & make a living a different way. Making hard choices people don’t understand or you can’t explain is a tough thing & part of life, but it’s harder when people create stories about it or anything you do that aren’t true. At the end of the day we are only who we believe we are, what we believe if it is the words of the outside world or ourselves makes a big difference. Because we can only control our thoughts & we are the one living our lives. Critics will always be there....but remember to write your own stories & make sure no one defines you or writes yours for you. We don’t have to be understood to make successful choices for us. My journey was different to what I dreamed & what many wanted for me but I had to choose me. We all have to choose ourselves or otherwise we miss what is truly waiting for us trying to live up to others expectations. Join me on p@teron for nude and bikini yoga over 2 year worth of content to enjoy. Try a paid per view here. There is over 21 new videos a month over all the tiers and new art every day dropping too - Link in socials