







👔**The Boyfriend**👔 Only one guy in the lifestyle has wanted to be my boyfriend. We had just entered the lifestyle and I’d only had a few partners. Drew found this amazing guy…2 decades younger than me, good looking, great chat, lived only 10 min from me…and married with two kids. BUT, he and his wife were in the lifestyle. She had a boyfriend my age. My new friend wanted to be my boyfriend but it was all too new. I didn’t want to be exclusive or have a serious relationship. I wanted to have fun exploring. So we met once a month for a few months. But he started getting under my skin. And sure enough, soon I was visiting him late at night when his wife was at her BF’s house & his kids were asleep. I still recall lying in his bed, legs intertwined while we chatted after sex. I have alot of great memories with him. The idea of having him as a boyfriend didn’t seem so bad after all. But a crisis had him breaking things off with me so he could focus on his family. He reached out many months later, but our time together had happened. I still have yet to experience a date in public with a guy. All my dates have been in hotel rooms, at lifestyle clubs, or at a residence. I’d like to have a “boyfriend experience” and be taken out. Someday.