On the SUNDAY of Memorial Day Weekend, we m-et a lifestyle f..
Added 2023-06-05 21:30:26 +0000 UTCOn the SUNDAY of Memorial Day Weekend, we m-et a lifestyle friend and his new girlfriend for drinks at our old stomping grounds (the first neighborhood where Prescott and I lived together years ago). We don't play with this couple. We actually just m-et the woman that night, but we've been friends with the guy for more than 15 years. And we just don't feel comfortable playing with people who were originally our vanilla friends.
If we me-et people in the lifestyle THEN become friends with them, it's different. (In fact, that's quickly becoming our favorite way to make new, flirty friends). But if you're our vanilla friend and we discover you're in the lifestyle, as well - we're gonna remain vanilla friends with you. Oh, we'll hang out naked with you if we end up at the same party or event at the same time. But no play. That's a hard boundary for us.
If you're in the lifestyle, how do you feel about playing with people who have been long-term vanilla friends? I'm curious! Tell me!
