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If you decide to send this little flirt to your SO, I suggest selecting the options as follows (in no particular order):
OPTION 1: Something you're really hoping to try out but you aren't sure if your partner would be down with it *(in this example, maybe you're wanting to feel out what your partner would think of visiting a sex club)*
OPTION 2: Something you're confident you'd both enjoy - this is your backup plan if they don't nibble at your sex club idea - it just ensures that there's at least one option with which your partner would be excited. *(in this example, maybe you and your partner have enjoyed mutual masturbation on rare occasions in the past, so it's a safe bet for a back-up plan)*
OPTION 3: Something that you think your partner MIGHT want to try but also probably wouldn't mind tossing out. *(in this case, maybe that's nipple clamps)*
Obviously you aren't REALLY restricted from ever trying out nipple clamps in the future...it's just a game guys!! And more than likely you'll have opened up all three options as topics of conversation on your date...
So who knows, maybe you'll end up stopping at a sex store to buy nipple clamps on the way to the sex club where you'll mutually masturbate just for the fun of it!!
Hey, it could happen!!