

SWINGER ETIQUETTE TIP #2
Straight and Bi ladies with male primary partners...pay attention to your man! Your partner is your top priority no matter who you are playing with and no matter how much fun you're having with anyone else.
I alluded to this in my last post, but wanted to give it some solo attention with a TIP of it's own because it's incredibly important! Here's the thing, erectile capacity in the lifestyle can be quite precarious and ever changing throughout the experience. Much more so than in a vanilla relationship. It's the same for us ladies but we're freakin lucky...our bodies don't shout to anyone within visual range that they are betraying us.
In my last story, Jill DID notice Jack's lack of a boner but did nothing to support him. Unless your hubs has a fetish for such things and the other play partners know that and are down with it...that's another dick move.
Otherwise, navigate your way over to your hubs, make out with him, fondle his cock lovingly, suck him off for a while, talk dirty to him, fuck him. It is so incredibly easy to do this in a sensual way that DOESN'T draw attention to his struggles and allows his mind to release the panic that is dwelling there. And his surge of appreciation for your love and attention will naturally remind his cock of how much fun he's having.
You don’t have to completely separate yourself from the other play partners to do this, either. But pay attention, read his response to whatever you do, and adjust as necessary.
PS - We took this pic in the restroom at a local sex club…bonus points to anyone who can name the club based upon this pic alone…GO!
@prescottfinn