I'm in a bit of a teasing mood today, can you tell?
I'm in a bit of a teasing mood today, can you tell?
2023-04-21 18:30:04 +0000 UTC View Post
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Oops, sorry babes...I didn't mean to flash ya.
Oops, sorry babes...I didn't mean to flash ya.
2023-04-21 16:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostWhat if...you pulled these bottoms to the side and gave my p..
What if...you pulled these bottoms to the side and gave my pretty kitty a little lovin? What then?
2023-04-21 13:30:11 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning loves, care for a lick? đđ
Good morning loves, care for a lick? đđ
2023-04-20 13:27:03 +0000 UTC View PostSquats are every girls' best friend...squats...and dick
Squats are every girls' best friend...squats...and dick
2023-04-19 18:30:05 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning, my loves â„ïžđRemember back when just catching a..
Good morning, my loves â„ïžđRemember back when just catching a glimpse down a womanâs shirt gave you a bit of a thrill?
2023-04-19 14:06:05 +0000 UTC View PostPOST 2/2 If you decide to send this little flirt to your SO,..
POST 2/2
If you decide to send this little flirt to your SO, I suggest selecting the options as follows (in no particular order):
OPTION 1: Something you're really hoping to try out but you aren't sure if your partner would be down with it *(in this example, maybe you're wanting to feel out what your partner would think of visiting a sex club)*
OPTION 2: Something you're confident you'd both enjoy - this is your backup plan if they don't nibble at your sex club idea - it just ensures that there's at least one option with which your partner would be excited. *(in this example, maybe you and your partner have enjoyed mutual masturbation on rare occasions in the past, so it's a safe bet for a back-up plan)*
OPTION 3: Something that you think your partner MIGHT want to try but also probably wouldn't mind tossing out. *(in this case, maybe that's nipple clamps)*
Obviously you aren't REALLY restricted from ever trying out nipple clamps in the future...it's just a game guys!! And more than likely you'll have opened up all three options as topics of conversation on your date...
So who knows, maybe you'll end up stopping at a sex store to buy nipple clamps on the way to the sex club where you'll mutually masturbate just for the fun of it!!
Hey, it could happen!!
LET'S PLAY A SEXY GAME! (POST 1 of 2) How about NOW, LATER ..
LET'S PLAY A SEXY GAME! (POST 1 of 2)
How about NOW, LATER or NEVER...
You remember this game from my 3/21/23 post - it's the kinky version of 'Marry, Fuck or Ki-ll'...I'm just throwing out different options this time...let's say you & I are hanging out tonight & I text you that you HAVE to select only one of these options for us to do...one to save for later...and one to never ever bring up again...Tell me how you'd respond in the comments below!!
A - Masturbate in front of each other
B - Let me put nipple clamps on you
C - Check out a sex club
*Sample Response*
C (now), A (later), B (never)
By the way, did you know IT'S ANAL SEX DAY?! Jim Jefferies (..
By the way, did you know IT'S ANAL SEX DAY?! Jim Jefferies (the comedian) riffed on the potential of this particular holiday and suddenly it became a thing...be careful what you riff for! lol
âWouldnât it be nice to have one day that was for men that didnât cost anything, that everyone could participate in. April 18th, Anal Sex Day. Everyoneâs girlfriend or wife has to take it in the ass on April 18th. A month before youâll be walking around the shopping center saying, âOhh the decorations are up!â And itâs good because if your bird didnât take it in the ass, you could do the same thing that women do on Valentineâs Day when they donât get a gift. Youâd go like, âOh me mate Jason and his wife took it in the ass twice. Obviously theyâre more connected than we are.â -Jim Jefferies
What? You don't want to tell the family doc you've been seei..
What? You don't want to tell the family doc you've been seeing forever that you've finally embraced the tramp within and thus require regular STI testing? I totally get that. There are LOTS of online STI testing options that are discrete, affordable and incredibly EASY.
everylywell.com is just one of many options you can check out:
everlywell.com/blog/sti-testing/everlywell-std-testing-process/
We ALWAYS use condoms when fucking other couples but not for..
We ALWAYS use condoms when fucking other couples but not for oral. The only couple weâve ever even *considered* NOT using a condom with is Kay and StixâŠbut theyâre our lifestyle besties and we trust them implicitly to let us know if thereâs any additional risk of STI transmission. At this point weâre still using condoms with them...the idea of potentially not using condoms at some point has only come up in passingâŠmostly just because we all donât love condoms.
BUT rememberâŠcondoms are NOT fool-proofâŠif youâre single and having casual sex, or in a relationship and either of you are getting down and dirty with anyone other than the primary partner, you should be getting tested every 6 months at a minimum!!
Do your part to keep all of us sluts as STI free as possible!!
Reminding yourself to test once or twice a year depending up..
Reminding yourself to test once or twice a year depending upon the frequency of your sexual activity is pretty easy, right? Just throw it on the calendar right there next to your dental cleanings!
*But just so ya know, the absolute BEST practices for STI testing are as follows:*
a) test before discussions of condomless sex with people outside of your primary relationship
b) test before the introduction of a new sexual partner
c) test after a sexual partnership ends
Prescott and I just got STI tested again and we have a clean..
Prescott and I just got STI tested again and we have a clean bill of health, Woohoo!! How frequently do you get STI tested?
If youâre a fellow pervy-perv-lifestyler or a single person whoâs gettinâ it on, itâs best practice for you to get tested every 3 - 12 months depending upon the following:
a) frequency of sexual engagement with individuals outside of the primary relationship (or individuals other than yourself, if youâre single)
b) whether or not either party engaged in fluid bonding with someone outside of the primary relationship (sexual engagement without a condom or any form of protection)
c) whether or not the relationship is serodiscordant (one or more of the participants has HIV while the others do not)
Itâs Masturbation Monday! Are you the type to jump on the fu..
Itâs Masturbation Monday! Are you the type to jump on the fun tasks first? Or do you tend to save the best for last? Tell me!
2023-04-17 13:30:42 +0000 UTC View PostThe boys did take some spicy sex pics on our play date with ..
The boys did take some spicy sex pics on our play date with Terri and Trevor. Not for OFâŠjust for funâŠBUT now Terri is looking into getting a release form signed, so you *may* actually end up getting to see those pics at some point! Weâre talking full-on amateur, spur-of-the-moment-without-any-consideration-for-angles-or-lighting-or-anyone-else-seeing-them types of picsâŠif youâre into that sort of thing. đđ
When she texted the next day saying sheâd be down with some pics being posted, it was SUCH a fun surprise! BUT itâs not a done deal yet. So Iâll keep you posted!
One thing that really endears me to couples is when they che..
One thing that really endears me to couples is when they check in with one another during play. I told you guys how much I loved that with Stix and Kay the very first time we played with themâŠwhen Kay said she needed to shift back to her man. Terri & Trevor were the same way. He would check in with her every so often, asking if she felt good (when Prescott was fucking her from behind), or if different things were ok. I love seeing that connectionâŠthe way other couples still prioritize each other even while sharing each other with other couples or singles. đ„°â„ïžđ„°
2023-04-16 19:52:33 +0000 UTC View PostHad a BLAST with our 2 you-ngest kiddos last night at their ..
Had a BLAST with our 2 you-ngest kiddos last night at their Universityâs moms night! Our son couldnât go out with us because he doesnât turn 19 until next month, but we grabbed dinner with him before going out. His buddies came and found us dancing with our daughter and a huge group of her friends later at the club. Our kidsâ friends are all just the sweetest, nicest peopleâŠtheyâre just so much fun!
And yes, a bunch of fraternities DID have signs up welcoming all MILFs lol. We had planned on running around and taking photos of all of the signs, but the night got away from us. Iâll make a point of it next year!
BUT this couple wasnât into the humiliation aspect of things..
BUT this couple wasnât into the humiliation aspect of things. And Trevor wasnât just sitting on the sidelines watching. He was fucking her, touching her, making out with herâŠhe was intensifying the play for everyone by doing things like holding her ass cheeks to improve his line of site while Prescott fucked her from behind, while she was simultaneously straddling me and making out with me. It all flowed so naturally and was super fucking đ„đ„đ„
Look at us, getting over our own preconceived notions and biases! lol It just goes to show - every couple is unique no matter what label they prefer.
Both Prescott and I really LOVE the idea of a 3-some with a ..
Both Prescott and I really LOVE the idea of a 3-some with a unicorn (a single woman in the lifestyle) where weâre all intermingled in play (*can you believe we STILL havenât had an FFM 3-some?!*). BUT we typically arenât hugely into the whole âhotwifeâ scene for a few reasons:
a) I didnât think Iâd like the idea of the guy just hanging out watchingâŠI thought it would make me self-conscious and take me out of the moment.
b) We both thought that a woman who was into the âhotwifeâ scene would expect ALL of the attention focused on her all (or the great majority) of the time. While we love doting on another woman and giving her all of our attention a good portion of the time, neither of us feel comfortable with another woman feeling that she is preferred or favored by my hubby over me.
c) We definitely arenât into any form of humiliation (regardless of who is being humiliated). SOMETIMES people are into hot-wifing so the hubby can feel humiliated by his wife wanting a larger cock than his, or so that the other wife (besides the hotwife) can feel humiliated by seeing her hubby desire and fuck someone he finds hotter than her. While we hold no judgment AT ALL toward those that are into humiliation, itâs not something that turns either of us on.
OUR BOUNDARIES: For those of you who are new here, our bound..
OUR BOUNDARIES: For those of you who are new here, our boundaries have evolved over the past 2 years and are different dependent upon the couple weâre with and how comfortable each of us feels with each of them in the moment. There are A LOT of moving parts. Weâre open to almost anything when we feel super comfortable with a coupleâŠwhich is pretty rare. Iâm typically quick to warm up with girls and veeeeery sloooooow to warm up with guys. When we started in the lifestyle 2 years ago, I thought I would only ever be with girls. And while our boundaries have shifted and I have been with a couple of guys, we still only play with couples with bi-furious females.
2023-04-15 16:02:36 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Saturday my babes! Weâre headed to our kids University..
Happy Saturday my babes! Weâre headed to our kids University for Momâs weekend today. What to wear - what to wear?? THAT is the question. lol
2023-04-15 13:30:30 +0000 UTC View Post*EDIT - A fellow creator made a good point in the comments t..
*EDIT - A fellow creator made a good point in the comments that there are other definitions that may suit this couple well. I updated this post to include those definitions, as well! Thanks for making such a great point, @pollythemilf !*
So basically Trevor and Terri are what is known as a hotwife/cuck couple or a stag/vixen couple - or probably more accurately, a combination of the two. There are other pieces of their journey that I haven't shared here that may make this distinction more clear, but for now here are the definitions of both types of relationships...
HOTWIFE: The female partner is encouraged by her partner to have sexual relations with other men. Her partner may or may not choose to be present. And he may or may not choose to be involved at some point in the sexual engagement.
CUCKOLD: A male who enjoys seeing his partner with other men or hearing about it afterward. He typically is ok with his wife having sex with other men whether or not he is present and whether or not he knows about it in advance. He may get turned on by his partner 'cheating' on him. (Although I use that term loosely, as there's always consent in cuck relationships...which makes it consensual cheating done with the intention of turning your partner on...which is quite different from traditional cheating!) He may prefer that the person she fucks is younger or has a larger cock. He may or may not enjoy being humiliated in the process.
VIXEN: Pretty darn similar to a hotwife. Some people refer to a vixen as the unmarried version of a hotwife although I've seen tons of married people define their relationship as a stag/vixen relationship.
STAG: A male who enjoys seeing his partner with other men. In some stag/vixen relationships, both partners encourage each others sexual exploration of others. The stag typically enjoys being present to enjoy his partner playing with other men. Most stags and vixens would still consider it cheating if the woman had unplanned sex with another man. The stag may or may not join in.
PS: I'll ask Terri and Trevor what definition they think most suits them if they had to choose one!
Aaannnd back to our regularly scheduled programmingâŠaaaalll ..
Aaannnd back to our regularly scheduled programmingâŠaaaalll the deets about our swinger date last weekendâŠ
THEIR BOUNDARIES: She can do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. He loves seeing her satisfied by another man and/or woman. She loves the idea of sharing him but sheâs new to the lifestyle and she hasnât quite worked through her thoughts and feelings about it enough to actually ENJOY it yet. So, at this point he only plays with her and himself when they get together with other couples.
The not-so-sexy behind the scenes of me trying to take these..
The not-so-sexy behind the scenes of me trying to take these cake & cunnilingus shots for you. Prescott was working in the other room when he noticed me on the table, sans panties. Suddenly he was casually strolling into the roomâŠya knowâŠjust in case I needed some help getting those close -ups.
Heâs also CLEARLY a giver. đđ
If youâre single, donât worryâŠI would never leave you out đ ..
If youâre single, donât worryâŠI would never leave you out đ
âŠyou can have some of my cake đđ
This proves it once and for all, doesnât it?
âŠIâm clearly aaaaallll about giving. đđ
Good Morning my sexy studs & studetteâs! In honor of Cake an..
Good Morning my sexy studs & studetteâs! In honor of Cake and Cunnilingus Day, weâre both having cake for breakfastâŠif youâre in a relationship, might I suggest picking up her favorite cake on the way home today? Chances are, it would improve the likelihood of you getting YOUR favorite cake upon arrivalâŠjust sayinâ đđ
2023-04-14 14:43:28 +0000 UTC View PostBravery through vulnerability is a huge turn-on for us, and ..
Bravery through vulnerability is a huge turn-on for us, and this couple really packed a beautiful punch in that department. I just loved how absolutely transparent they were about their insecurities, fears and boundaries as well as their turn-ons and turn-offs. Vulnerability like that builds trust and security that the communication channels might remain transparent during and after the experience, which significantly reduces the likelihood of unwanted drama, confusion and potential hurt feelings. And since we have a severe drama phobia, we find ourselves really sort of naturally endeared to couples that are comfortable just saying it like it is without judging themselves or expecting judgment from us.
It can be super uncomfortable to share vulnerabilities in the lifestyle, so often people will try to manage any unexpected uncomfortable feelings in-house rather than discussing it openly with the other couple. Unfortunately the other couple can often tell that something is amiss regardless of whether or not itâs directly addressed, which puts a damper on the fun factor that drew us all to the lifestyle in the first place. Open communication and vulnerability between couples just puts everyone in such a nice position to make the experience mutually enjoyable, and Terri & Trevor knocked it out of the park on this one!
They offered us a drink upon arrivalâŠand I have to say, this..
They offered us a drink upon arrivalâŠand I have to say, this was THE BEST TEQUILA I have EVER tasted in my entire life. It was just all kinds of creamy goodness. SeriouslyâŠgo buy a bottle. You wonât regret it!! There was a lounge area in their room complete with a sofa and chairs, so I joined Terri on the couch and Prescott took the remaining open chair. We just hung out and flirted for quite a while, sharing sexy stories and specifics about each of our boundaries.
2023-04-13 19:08:22 +0000 UTC View PostWe decided to me-et at Coopers Hawk (as much as I love wine,..
We decided to me-et at Coopers Hawk (as much as I love wine, weâve never been there - so I was excited to give it a whirl)! The Cabernet Sauvignon was delicious, by the wayâŠhighly recommend!
We arrived at 8pm and were thrilled to see that they were even hotter in real life than in pics! (We could see from their pics that they were classy and attractive but you never really know what people actually look like until you see them in person).
Sheâs this adorable tiny little thing with the most attractive and contagious smile ever. Sheâs got cute little tits (if youâve been around for a while, you know how much I dig cute little titties đ„”) and heâs tall, attractive and in good shape. Needless to say, we were off to a good start based upon first impressions!
We shared spicy stories and flirty banter for the next two hours until CH closed, at which point they invited us back to their hotel room next door. Weâve only played on a first date once before and that was when we were on vacation and in a what-the-heck-may-as-well-just-go-for-it kind of mindset. BUT we really enjoyed chatting with this couple and we felt confident that theyâd respect our boundaries if we werenât feeling the play vibe at any point in the eveningâŠsooooo off we went to their hotel room!
Good morning my fellow horndogsâŠwanna hear about our sexy sw..
Good morning my fellow horndogsâŠwanna hear about our sexy swinger date last weekend?
2023-04-13 13:30:23 +0000 UTC View Post