Tip this post $5 and I'll send you this vid of Prescott taking charge. If you're a subscriber as of the date & time that this vid drops, go check your DM's. You get it FREE!
Because you definitely aren't gonna get far with 'Oh, you're nailing me, cool!' or 'Yeah! Let's screw!' or 'Me so horny, me love you long time!' (Bonus points to anyone who can name that reference lololol)
Dirty talk doesn't have to be all 'Fuck me harder!' and 'Suck my cunt!' I mean, those are perfectly acceptable phrases, but dirty talk isn't dirty just because you're using filthy language...although, let's be real...it can help if you have a well-versed pervy vocabulary.
There's tons of research out there supporting the fact that couples that communicate the best have the happiest relationships. So it's not very shocking that the couples that communicate the most about their sexual needs, desires, fantasies and fears tend to have the best sex, right?
Which reminds me…One of my hubbies college buds told us about his first visit to a sex club…which was about 15 years ago, by the way. He said when he and his wife walked in the door there was a topless woman sitting ON (not behind) the reception desk and the first thing she did was offer up her titties for his licking and sucking pleasure.
If clubs are gonna charge single guys so freakin’ much, they should probably implement some sort of topless welcome party for them too, don’t ya think? It’s only logical!
I was SHOCKED to discover they charged $140 for single dudes 😳 It’s typical that single guys pay more than couples and single girls either pay significantly less or they get in free…but WOW…$140 seems a bit over the top, don’t ya think? I mean, it’s not like a blowjob is included in the cover charge!
We had invited a single musician friend of ours who just recently got started in the lifestyle to come check the place out. We don’t play with him, but we know how hard it can be for single guys to get into some clubs on their own, so we were happy to act as a throuple for the night.
It’s official, I’m a total tease! The only pics I took last night at the club were before Kay & Stix even arrived. WHAT WAS I THINKING?!?! I guess I deserve a spanking too.
Happy Sunday…otherwise known as: The-last-day-of-‘The-Octopus’-fingering-challenge! Have you tried it yet? Or fantasized about it to commit it to memory? If not, you better get on it pronto or I’ll have no choice but to spank you! 🤷♀️😈
Hi babes! We’re headed to a sex club. And I hope YOU are having some fun tonight too…whether you’re at home by yourself, or out on the town, HAVE A GREAT NIGHT!!!!
Some pics make it so damn easy to imagine dropping to your knees, grabbing my hips, and savoring a nice close look before shoving your face in between my cheeks and lapping your warm, wet tongue out for a taste of me…Right? RIGHT?? I thought so 😉😈
According to the same study, 88% of men said there are things their partners can do to make them feel more desired. So even if they did feel desired at times, they craved a bit more.
Soooo ya know how I mentioned that there isn’t a lot of research out there about men and desire? Well the *Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy* recently published a study on that very topic.
*According to that study:* 95% of men report that feeling desired is important to their sexual experiences
*According to the survey I posted here this week asking the same question:* 80% reported that feeling desired is important to them 16% reported that it would be nice, but they can get by without it 4% reported that feeling desired doesn’t impact their sexual experience * these stats may change as more people vote
One of you sexy babes asked about how the quickie challenge from March 1st went…so here’s an update…
I got 13 DM’s with pics and/or vids of their solo quickie 🥵🔥🥵🔥🥵🔥THANK YOUUUUU!!!
I got 2 DM’s from subs that tried to send a pic or vid of the quickie they had with their partner, but they didn’t come through because their partner hadn’t been verified through OF. (I love the way you think, guys! Now get your girls verified, boys! I wanna see!)
I got 6 other DM’s from subs describing what they were thinking about during their solo or partnered quickie. 🔥🥵🔥🥵🔥
I got 3 DM’s from subs saying they would have done it but they didn’t have a partner to do it with….but remember, every challenge can be modified for solo play! So no more excuses!!!!!!
So at least 21 subs participated! Yaaaaaayyy! Keep that participation cumming peeps! I love the idea that we’re all kinda out there ‘gettin’ some’ together with these challenges!
Tip this post $5 and I’ll send you the full vid! If you are a current subscriber as of the date and time of this post, check your DM’s! I’m sending the full vid to you sexy studs free right after this posts!
Even so, I DID get some actual responses on that board and a couple of other social sites where I posted the question...so just in case you're also curious about where men over 40 are having the most success with finding matches that are NOT solely sexual in nature:
*Bumble* Some things to keep in mind about Bumble: 1) girls have to make the initial contact with guys, so you don't risk a million rejections to get to someone who's potentially interested...BUT it might get a bit lonely from time to time waiting for a match, particularly since dating sites tend to be so superficially focused on looks over everything else. 2) On the free version, EVERYONE has to respond to messages within 48 hours at which point they are no longer available to you...which can be a good think in my mind, no one gets strung along wondering when or if the other person is going to respond.
*Me-etup.com* (minus the dash) This isn't an actual dating site but a lot of guys over 40 have had success meeting other singles that have similar interests to them on this site. Similar interests mean a greater likelihood of a deeper connection.
*R4R40Plus (Reddit dating board)* I didn't even know Reddit dating boards existed, but some guys reported having success on them. I got this tip from different people on various socials, so there must be at least a bit of truth to the potential there. From what I understand, the possible drawback is finding people in a similar geographic location. Maybe at some point people will make dating reddit boards for specific geographical locations. HEEEEEY maybe one of you guys should do that! If you do, make sure you tell me so I can spread the word!!
Not to distract you from staring at this pic and imagining fucking me 🥵, buuutttt...I wanted to share something with you guys that I find so disappointing. I posted a question on r/AskMen on Reddit...'What's your favorite dating site for men over 40, and why?'
Most of what I got in response was judgement for being an OF creator, a fact that I had not mentioned in my post at all...and there was no picture in my post either. I was seriously just asking a question that has come up recently with one of my favorite subs here along with a couple of my clients and my brother (whom I have officially identified myself as his dating manager lol).
It's so disappointing that we as a society celebrate an appetite for healthy amounts of good food, drink and sleep...but when it comes to good sex or sexiness in general, so often people automatically assume the worst.
I AM SO GLAD there's a place like OF where sexuality is embraced and celebrated 🎉And I AM SO HAPPY that you all are here to embrace and celebrate it with me! ♥️ Luvs ya babes! 💋💋
Guys!!! Is it wrong that this pic makes me SOOO HORNY???? 🥵🥵🥵 I know that sounds crazy-self-absorbed but honestly, it's not even about the people in the pic...I just LOVE pics like this. Where you can see that hard and ready cock so close to touching a wet and wanting pussy...and you can just tell it's about to happen...so much so that you can almost feel it, it looks so yummy. 🥵👅
Please, somebody, tell me you know what I'm talking about!!!
Heeeyyy you sexy things! HAPPY FRIDAY! You can thank @prescottfinn for the little ass-cheeky spread here...he clearly knows what you like to see. *screengrab from vid I'll be dropping and DM'ing you all later today*
(Post 2 of 3) FELLOW APPROVED CREATORS & FANS: If YOU try out the ‘Octopus’ fingering technique referenced in my last post (or want to show it off, if you’re already pro at it) send me a little teaser clip or pic and I’ll feature you on my page. Of course fans will have to sub to you to see the WHOLE vid, but they’ll get a little promo taste of your sexy vibe here…and they’ll get to see how everyone puts their own artistic spin on different sex skills and techniques.
PS: this pic is a little screen grab from the vid I’ll be dropping tomorrow 😉😈
(POST 1 of 3) SEX CHALLENGE!! I’m SO FUCKING EXCITED I could SQUIRT right now! I just got a DM referencing this vid I posted on 3/7/23…It said, in part, *’I’m going to do this to my FWB when I see her next’*
My heart rate is literally up, I’m so freakin’ excited about someone’s sexual experiences IRL being influenced by something they saw on my page!!!!
So now, I can’t help myself! I have a challenge for ALL of you regardless of whether or not you’re in a partnered relationship:
*I challenge you to experiment with this double handed/mouth/tongue…hmmm, let’s call it the ‘Octopus’ technique to fingering your girl BY THIS SUNDAY 3/12/23 if possible.*. Then come back and comment on this post and/or DM me about how it went.
If you don’t currently have a sexual partner or you won’t see them this weekend: I want you to give this approach some serious air time in your fantasies by Sunday…because practicing techniques in your fantasies makes them come to mind MUCH MORE EASILY when you eventually get the opportunity to use them in real life. You may think it looks cool now, but if you don’t commit it to memory, you probably aren’t gonna think of when you get the opportunity to use it!
Hey boys...did you come for a visit after seeing @joalexandria69 's post about me on her OF page? If so, DM me babes...I want to give you a FREE vid from my prior posts just for being so fucking awesome! JoAlexandria is amazing, you obviously have incredible taste and should be rewarded accordingly!
All the vids I drop while you're subbing to me will be entirely FREE...and I'll let you in on a little secret...I have a habit of giving away past vids for free to people who engage with my posts and entertain me with their presence. Shhhh, don't tell 😉😈)
Tip this post $5 and I’ll send you the vid of @prescottfinn fingering me to climax 🥵 IT’S FREE to CURRENT SUBS as of the date and time of this post, so check your DM’s, my sexies! I’m just gonna go ahead and warn you, he’s pretty masterful with those fingers of his 🥵🔥
If we're thinking in terms of GENDER NORMS in heterosexual relationships, MEN are typically responsible for desiring women and initiating sexual engagement. Agree? However, it often seems that we believe men’s need to BE DESIRED THEMSELVES isn't really that important. In fact, there are TONS of studies out there demonstrating that women who feel desired are much more likely to feel sexually aroused...but HARDLY ANY studies about men and desire.
In my experience (both professionally and personally) I have to say...reality does not entirely support this gender norm. It seems to me that ANYONE who is sexual by nature also naturally experiences enhanced arousal and connection when they feel genuinely desired, regardless of gender.
But hey, I'm not a penis owner...at least not in the physical sense (make no mistake @prescottfinn, I own that thing...it's MINE!!) As for the rest of you sexy cock owners, tell me...
*IS FEELING DESIRED AN IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCES?*
*7 screengrabs from video I'm posting later today*