So guess what their situation is now? NOW this 20 something dude is my hot Latina friends’ BOYFRIEND!!!! She talked about how she’s usually disappointed to go home when vacations end, but this time she can’t wait to get home because she has a hot date planned with her BOYFRIEND the first night they get back.
I am in awe of the fact that her excitement for her hot date made her hubby so happy. He said he experiences some twinges of jealousy every now and then, but he’s able to remind himself that he is her primary love, their relationship is not in any jeopardy, and their desire for each other is enhanced by her relationship with her boyfriend. I’m so impressed with his security!
Soooo, the body builder guy ended the secondary relationship with his ex-girlfriend and they took a break from polyamory to mend their own relationship. A few months later, the guy challenged his wife to pick up a much you-nger guy one night when they were out for drinks. (The couple is our age, by the way, and the you-ng dude was in his 20’s). They ended up bringing the guy home and of course, fucking him. I’m sure he felt like he hit the friggin’ jackpot, I’m telling you – this woman is hot AF.
Good morning my horny devils. It's masturbation day!
Ok, so it's not OFFICIALLY masturbation day...it's more like my very own made up holiday because I'm horny, and I wanna see you cum. Go ahead, send me a quick little masturbation cum vid or pic. You know you wanna!!! (Now I guess I'll see how many people actually read my posts! lol)
It was interesting talking with them because they were very transparent about both the joys and challenges of their experiences. Their first attempt at polyamory involved the guy dating and sleeping with a former girlfriend. It didn’t work out well for the couple. The fact that there was prior history between the guy and his former girlfriend prompted overwhelmingly uncomfortable feelings of jealousy for the girl, and it started to impact their happiness in their own relationship.
These are the risks of stepping out of your sexual or relationship box...which is why you have to go into swinging and/or polyamory with a rock solid relationship based on TONS of communication and self-evaluation. Otherwise it will be fun for a minute, and then the whole thing could blow up in your face...and not in a good way 😉😈
That couple (Latina girl, body builder guy) told us that they’ve been dipping their toes in polyamory. Polyamory takes swinging to the next level. What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory? Swinging is basically just opening your relationship to sex with other people (with all parties’ awareness and consent). Polyamory is when the engagement goes beyond just sex and ventures into romantic relationships.
At some point that night between dance floors, we ran into the married couple we met in the playroom hot tub and hung out with them for a while (Latina girl, body builder guy). They told us that they both had ‘hall passes’ and that they had attended the hall pass me-et & greet. (A hall pass essentially means they’re both cool with the other playing with other people solo). They hadn't yet met anyone they were ready to play with but they were having fun exploring the options.
Remember, they had asked us if we wanted to play the night we me-t them in the hot tub, but the girl isn't into girls and I wasn't into fucking the guy, so we weren't a good match for sex. But we ended up hanging out with them intermittently throughout the cruise because we all got along so well as friends.
Quick Tip: Neither of us love drawing attention to ourselves, which is probably part of what has kept us off of dance floors in the past. Our strategy on the cruise was simple: Always head to the middle of the dance floor where you’ll be less likely to draw the attention of wall flowers and crowd watchers. Literally, whenever we ran into couples that wanted to hook up with us later, we’d tell them to look for us in the middle of the dance floor. It was brilliant! Try it!
All non-lifestyle related dance floors have officially & forever been ruined for us. (Which isn’t saying much since we mostly only enjoyed formal dancing before (swing, etc). We've never been the couple that spends the whole night on the dance floor.) BUT we now have a newly developed LOVE for dancing in general…specifically on dance floors where anything goes...and where there's always the potential for fondling, making out and the very real possibility of more to cum.
What's your stance on dancing as foreplay? Tell me!
Happy Monday, my sexies! Ok, back to All That Sparkles Night on the sex cruise...
As you can tell, we LOVED the Latin dance club! We moved from one dance venue to the next all night long. Ended up dancing and making out on the dance floor with different hot women until almost 4am. I was getting warmed up for sure...feeling less shy and more forward.
A guy put a venomous spider up his ass (one of many uncommon fetishes) and got bitten, then called an ambulance because he wasn’t sure if he could put bug bite cream up there too, as the packaging said 'for external use only'. He ended up losing the entire transverse section of his (necrotic) bowel. He lived, but he'll forever defecate in a bag. 😳😬
Moral of the story: Fetishes can be tons of fun...but it's important to educate yourself, know the risks, and choose wisely regarding which sexy thoughts you want to keep in fantasy land and which ones are worth the risks to experience in real life.
Do you have a super creative or crazy fantasy that you love thinking about but probably won't actually act on? What is it? Tell me!!!
Whew, I hope your Saturday is half as orgasmic as mine has been so far. If not, you better get to work! Those orgasms aren't going to manufacture themselves!!!
I'm going to try to make this post into a poll, but my poll tab hasn't been working lately...sooooo, just in case it doesn't post as a poll, go ahead and respond in the comments below!
If you were to attend a gang bang and venture into participation, which cum style would you go for? *See previous post for styles if the poll didn't come up.
So I was super curious about the cum situation at gang bangs (if you've been following me for a while, you know how much I love cum). Apparently there are three general types of parties when it comes to cumming at gang bangs:
1) CONDOMS ON: So guys can cum where ever they want.
2) BARE-BACK BUT RESPECTFUL: So fuck her, but don't cum in her. (He said the girl often ends up swallowing anyway at this type of gang bang).
3) CUMSLUT: Cum where ever you want. Literally pump her full of hot cum.
Let's get back to this whole gang bang discussion...
So, I was chatting with one of my favorite subs who happens to have some experience with organizing gang bangs. I've witnessed one at a sex club...it was actually my very first time at a sex club, actually...so I was more than a bit intrigued. But I was thrilled to chat with this sub about it because I had questions...so many questions! Is there anything you're curious about with regard to gang bangs? Send me your questions and I'll ask! He's very open to sharing his experiences and how the whole thing works.
For example, when it comes to cum, there are generally 3 different types of gang bang parties...you curious?
I have sooooo many favorites, it's hard to choose...
I loved the time we were fucking in between buildings in our neighborhood in Chicago as the snow was falling. Me, teasingly pulling down my yoga pants in invitation...him taking it slow at first, telling me about the sight of snowflakes landing on his hard, wet cock each time he slowly pulled out, both of us cumming so hard at the same time. I love that memory...turns me on every time I think of it. 🌶🥵
Did you already share a favorite memory on my last post? If not, what are you waiting for??? Tell me!!
Well, it's Thursday...should we do a throwback to favorite sexual experiences in life? You really should take a moment every now and then to remember and appreciate them...it's invigorating! So tell me, what is one of your favorite sexual memories?
It wasn't long before my new hot Latina friend came over and stole me from the hubs. She started teaching me some sexy dance moves. It was SO MUCH FUN. I couldn't believe I was actually doing it! The next thing we knew, we were the only two on the dance floor with a bit of an audience in the lounge chairs surrounding the dance floor. Who knows which part drew the crowd...two girls sexy dancing? A hot Latina teaching a white girl to dance? My transparent dress? Her tight dress on her hot bod? Us making out? Who knows??
Lucky for me, I met a sexy Latina while the hubs was in the restroom near the Latin Dance Club. She told me that she and her hubs could be found every night on the dance floor of the Latin Club, so of course I had to bring the hubs there later that night to me-et them. We decided to go ahead and try to wing it on the dance floor while we were there. We figured we could ride on our swing dance skills...well, I should say HIS swing dance skills. Because I'm pretty sure I couldn't dance swing without him leading me.
You like Latin dancing? I mean, I know we all love watching it...but do you actually know how to do it?? I LOVE the idea of it and had actually planned to learn prior to going on this cruise. I was really kicking myself when we stumbled upon a Latin dance club on the cruise ship...that often seemed to attract the hottest couples. 💃🔥
I almost forgot...there was the one super NOT sexy part of the cruise. A pregnant woman who was on the cruise required surgery in the middle of the night and had to be air lifted out to the nearest port the following day.
Luckily, there was a passenger on the ship who happened to be qualified to perform the procedure. In the middle of the night (or the very early morning hours) announcements were made seeking passengers who were willing to donate blo-od. We must have been dancing at the time, because we never heard the announcements. We found out about the whole ordeal the following morning when announcements were made and different parts of the ship were being shut down to accommodate preparations for the emergency chopper landing. It circled the ship for nearly an hour before finally landing.
We heard a couple of rumors about what medical attention the woman required, some notably more sensational and dramatic than others. But the information above (along with the fact that she was doing well a couple of days later) was all that was provided to us officially. Scary stuff. I can't even imagine how she and her significant other felt.
Soooooo....All That Sparkles Night on our sex cruise...
After dinner, we went back to our room to change before heading down to the theme dance party. My outfit was a bit of a hit that night. I'll admit, it was my favorite 'costume' of the trip. It was basically like walking around in nothing but glitz and glitter all night. What's not to like about that??
Ok...where was I in my sex cruise memories and musings? You guys still interested in hearing about that? I haven't even gotten to the best parts yet!
Ahhh, oh yes...It was 'All That Sparkles' night...We started the night 'sparklingly' clean and ended it in a sweaty, glittery, 'sparkly', blissfully and perpetually horny state. As it turns out, the evening's theme was right on target. Who could have guessed?? lol
